BONCHI_LOVE

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May of 2006 my before shot at about 280-285



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I love vintage and pinup. Just fashion over all. This is my youngest and she is just as into it too!



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85 pounds gone baby!!!


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Hi and thanks for visiting my page. This year marks 10 years that I started SP. I originally hit a 85lbs weight loss but did not hit my 110lbs goal. I have gone up and down during the years but this is the highest weight I have been since I lost weight on SP. I am an extremely emotional person, I can pick up others emotions which is very difficult for me to keep my emotions on check. I know that my weight has been a side effect of all the loss and struggles I have gone through in my life. I started on a spiritual journey almost three years ago and I have been seeking my healing. I am a believer and I know this is a process God has me on. I know it won't be easy and I know I will face fears and situations from my past that I will not like. I have already confronted a few. Right at this moment I am probably facing the most difficult time in my life. I'm almost 35 and people start dying in your family and parents start to come dependent, I also have three children of my own and I am pursuing my BA, so life is full! But in the midst of this pain (I recently lost a loved one) I have decided that I will turn it into purpose. It's time I face my fears and take care of unfinished business. I am not as strong as I felt 10 years ago but then again when I started before I had never worked out or calorie counted a day in my life so I know I shouldn't be so hard on myself. This is a new stage for me in my life, my children are a little older and I am single, so I am on a journey of just starting to figure out what I like and what I want for my life. I became a spark people motivator in 2008 I believe, I love to help people Especially if I can avoid them going through the same struggles I have gone through. I like to help because I know what pain feels like. I know there is a purpose to all of this, I want to inspire and motivate I guess my first task is to inspire and motivate myself. So thank you for reading! I am the first to tell you that this can be achieved. That it is literally a battle of the mind and a shift in your thinking,. It is not easy but it can be done. Start small!!!!

Love,

Debbie

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2017 Challenge-Learning to Love myself
4/3
SW-240lbs
4/10-237.5 Yay!!! a loss is a loss!


Member Since: 3/22/2007

Fitness Minutes: 5,656

My Goals:
To celebrate with non food rewards every single week of loss! To smile more, to dress my best at every stage of this process!


My Program:
I like zumba, I'm in the early stages of staring this up again so I don't have a routine yet. Stay tuned!



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Things I love

Movies, Comedians, the 1940's, Investigative Forensic Shows, Murder Mystery, History Shows, Shopping, Beauty and Fashion Shows, Made and My Super Sweet 16 LOL!, Oprah & Dr. Phil and of course the Biggest Loser!

Favorite Music to work out to:

Kirk Franklin-Hero, the whole cd has me kicking butt on the eliptical.

Shakira-OMG I love her. I have everyone of her cd's on my ipod. I can't get enough. Her afro-punk remix always gets me pumping

Mana-Right now I listen to their new one, but I love them, old or new.

Alicia Keys-Her new cd has several songs I like to workout to.

Luis Miguel-I can't help it, I'm a hopeless romantic

Laura Pausini-I don't know what cd it is but it's like one of the first one's. She rocks!

Anthony Hamilton-I love all of his music




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  • v KRISTYLYNN1985
    hey girl. just checking in...i hope all is well.
    4920 days ago
  • v GOOFYGIRL03
    Hope you're having a great week! If you want to chat just drop me some sparkmail :)
    4925 days ago
  • v KRISTYLYNN1985
    I know its tough. I'm at the very beginning and my goal seems so far away...but WE can do it. Anytime you need anything, please don't hesitate to ask...God bless.
    4926 days ago
  • v GI..GI..GINA!
    I always get asked the infamous question, "What was the moment you decided to make the change" I don't really have an exact answer. I think it was a combination of events really. In a 2 week time frame I had a lot of negative things happen to me. For one, an insurance lady informed me I couldn't be covered on anyone's insurance because I was too "heavy". I was devastated, and she was rude, but she was also right. I realized I weighed 293 pounds and couldn't believe it. The last time I had stopped on a scale I was 220. I couldn't believe I let myself go for so long. I took a look at my life and realized how sad I had become. Always staying home, not enjoying my life. Sleeping all day long on the weekends. It was just sad. And it was time to change. I decided 2 days before xmas, that I needed to do it. And what better time to start. I knew if I could eat healthy on xmas, I could do anything. And sure enough, that theory has proved right. I'd love to talk girlie. I talk to a lot of people and try to help them out, especially women around my age. You can email me at MsDetermination@gmail.com or message me through here. Keep in touch & best of luck!
    4926 days ago
  • v QTJOJO
    Jellybean!!!!! Yeah thanks for let me know about the 21 yrs jajajjajaja maybe i was taking a few years off. Hope this week is going go for you. Its been going good in eating for me because i am still sick but not exercising because i am sick!!!! Well talk to you later. Love ya!


    4926 days ago
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