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Introduction Text 1/17/19 Well my friends 2018 turned out to be the worst year that I have had in many many years. after celebrating 15 years of marriage on 4/18 my husband flew to England on monies that I finally received from my back settlement for a 3 week vacation to see his kids, he left on 5/02, and family since it had been since 2004 that he had seen them. With a kiss and a promise to see me the day before my birthday on 5/21. he called me every day for 2 weeks and sometimes 2 to 3 times a day to tell me how miserable he was, how hecould not wait to get home, how expensive every thing was, how unsafe it was there and how the kids didn't have time for him and neither did his family and of course could I put more money in the account as he was running short or he needed to get a motel room s his Mum was driving him crazy. And I did it all as I never had any reason not to but..... on 5/15 he called me and told me HE WAS NOT COMING BACK TO THE USA. He told me a couple of different stories but not that he wanted me to come there either. no excuses except he had met someone else on line that lived there and he needed to be back home. He told me I could have everything (yes he left everything he had accumulated in 17 years except the 2 suitcases he took on the plane) and he wouldn't fight the divorce. In total he had already gotten over 5,200.00 cash out of me and that was just the beginning of his deceit. He did call me 5 days later to tell me there was no other woman but he knew if he did not tell me that I could never get over him.............boy was he wrong. Needless to say for 3weeks I was in shock and then I started to pray and ask God what should I do......................and as clear as a bell he said "GO HOME" and so I moved back to my home town. And the rest is history. Not to say it has been easy because it has not, I didn't want a divorce and I was still in love with my husband after all the things he was doing and yes gals I have a long list but not I am involved with my class and helped with our 39th reunion, I spend time with old friends and school friends and my BFF from school and I do tons together and I am involved with a qonderful church and a ladies bible study group from there and I go back to the little church I went to 22 yrs ago when I lived here and the people there remembered me. I am also involved with the cooking team and the elderly team at my new church and I love where I live and so do the kitty girls yes CeCe aka Big gurl, Fee aka Hissy gurl and Bree aka BreeBree gurl as my 6 yrs old great niece calls them with her West Virginia accent............by the way I get her in the summer for 3 months and as I only had her for part of Julyand August this past Summer I cant wait to have her for the whole Summer this year, we are like 2 peas in a pod and we share the same middle name..............yes she was named after me, Anyway this should catch you up to date and let you know what went on from April 2018 until now. As for the 2 years prior my Mom would say I dropped out of life because my husband was drugging me with his sleeping pills I cannot say if that is true or not, I just thought I was depressed for some nknown reason but funny after he had been gone 4 days I got up at 8 am and had full days cleaning the house and going out to shopand eat which were things I had stopped doing. and I helped move a 3 bdrm, 2 bath, 2 car garage, kitchen, pantry, dining room, front porch house 100 miles away and unpack 1/2 of it. so you all be the judge of that. And yes I did file for divorce and YRS he hired an Attny in our home town to fight it so he has turned into not only a CHEATER and THIEF but also a LIAR, And I never thought I would ever say that about him.. 11/18/17 Well here I am again starting over. I have gotten back into bad habits and slowly and surely it has packed the pounds back on me. So I know what I have to do and how I need to do it. Here on SP with their tools and my friends, this is a recipe for success. Here I go. 9/14/14 Because my sister -SEVEN- aka Fidia believes in me so much, here I am back on Spark and I even joined the BLC team which I was a part of for rounds 14-17. If she thinks I can do it then I had better listen to her and GER'ER'DONE! After 2 major back surgeries in March I found that I could not walk for about a month and then had to spend 3 weeks in a rehab hospital (thank God it was here in my home town) and although I am looking at 1 more minor surgery and I go for my last MRI tomorrow 9/15/14 there are still things to be done to get me back to a more healthier me. Exercise being one of them, it is still very hard to do and I have had to stop PT until this last surgery (consult on the 24 of this month for surgery date) but I continue to do PT here at the house and I know that I have lost 36.5 pounds since those back surgeries in March and I know I did it through my good eating habits. So will continue to work on my healthy eating habits but gottoa kick some PT in the booty to get off some more pounds. Like I say, I am a work in progress and will probably always continue to be so. But hey that only means you can teach an old dog new tricks. ************************************************************************* I am Karla or Nims or Nimsy or Nimma or Nimmykins or Nimmers or Nimmie. I answer to all of them except my given name Karla. Funny isn't it how much I like my Name on here. I am a work in progress. I love all my SP teams but right now it is the Pink Panthers BL Spring Into Action team that has really taken me in due to the fact that I am going to be having 2 major back surgeries on 3/12 & 3/18 and will not be able to participate in exercise or much of anything, but they are accepting me as an honorary member this Spring (I have been on the team for many rounds now as an active member) and will be showering me with all the love and support I will need during this time. THANKS EMMY AND THE WHOLE PINK PANTHER TEAM. But if your looking for a wonderful challenge you really should check out the teams, there are many besides the Pink Panthers and I bet at least one of your friends belongs to one of them. You should be there. I am also a team leader (not doing to much to help move the teams along right now but I have some awesome co-cappies thank God. One team is all about creative writing and role play and is called Realms of Imagination or RoI. So if you enjoy creative writing come give it a look see. My other team is called Homebodies and our Spouse is our BFF. Just good friends sharing their days, crafts, canning info and good conversation. If you want to check it out just let me know. Now here comes the RL parts of my life that give me fits. I have been having so many problems with my diabetes for the past year it is the top priority in my life. But then I have been having some off shoot depression problems when I think about these 2 major surgeries looming ahead. Never knew how hard it is to fight depression until I found myself right in the middle of it. But like I said between Spark and good friends, family, God I am going to win these battle and reclaim my good health. I hope to see you walking right beside me so we can encourage each other. I only hope and pray I get back to my old cheerful happier self once these surgeries are over and I can find my way back to writing my blogs about Life Lessons. I know these are battles I must WIN!!

To be healthy and happy. That means losing weight and eating right and putting in more exercise. I know this can be done as I have done it before.

Paul McKenna combined with Wheat Belly and Atkins. Nothing like cutting out the bad grains but also being able to eat what you love, in moderation that is.

I live in Arkansas right on the Oklahoma border. I am married (4/18/03) to a wonderful man that I met on line from the UK (England) I have wonderful inlaws, 5 fur babies Georgie girl and Gwenny are rabbits, CeCe, Fee and Bree are sister cats. I love the outdoors, cooking, reading, role play and all fantasy books.

I am doing my best to make myself first in health. My hubby & furbabies, Mom and family 1st in my spiritual life. And I am trying to kick the emotional eating habit.

Add a Link Nimsy, AR There's No Place Like Home. Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz Love thy neighbor as thy self. God When one door closes, another one always opens. No one is going to sail your ship for you, they are busy sailing their own, so suck it up buttercup and get underway or out of the way, the choice is all yours. Nimsy
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