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LET GO AND LOVE MORE

Saturday, February 14, 2009

LET GO AND LOVE MORE

To "let go" does not mean to stop caring—
It means I can't do it FOR someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off—
It's the realization that I can't CONTROL another.

To "let go" is not to ENABLE—
But to allow learning from natural consequences.

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another—
It's to make the most of MYSELF.

To "let go" is not to care FOR—
But to care about.

To "let go" is not to FIX—
But to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to JUDGE—
But to allow another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not being in the middle, arranging all outcomes—
But to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to be over-protective—
It's to permit another to face reality.

To "let go" is not to DENY—
But to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold or argue—
But instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to MY desires—
But to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to regret the past—
But to grow and live for the future.

TO LET GO IS —
TO FEAR LESS ... AND TO LOVE MORE.


update:am making a little progress with some of the dr's and most of the tests are now done so am waiting for results........i am learning to be my own avocate as this seems to be the only way to get some needed medical input...................as i know more will keep you posted.................
sending valentine's day wishes to all you come by.......................bless
ings and hugs.................lita
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  • BJBALDWIN
    That was a great blog. Thanks so much for sharing it with us.
    3982 days ago
  • AQUAGIRL08
    Lita,
    I love your blog! Thanks for sharing.

    Hugs,
    Cyndi
    3994 days ago
  • SAMODER
    Lita, What a wonderful post. Many of us are overweight because we can't let go of things to let ourselves be healthy - whether it is stress, emotions, or past failures. This said that all so well.

    Good luck with getting the health information that you need. I'm glad that you will be keeping us updated.

    Love, Sharon aka Sam
    3996 days ago
  • CINNIEMAY
    thank you for sharing!
    3996 days ago
  • ANGELME28613
    I Love This and I'm so glad you shared it.

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    Pammy
    3997 days ago
  • SHERI1969
    First off, love the little inspiration you left. I've seen it many times, but never tire of reading it! As for your tests, I hope they soon find out how to help you. I know what going through medical test after medical test without answers is like. I wish you well and pray for healing for you. Do take care of yourself and if needs be, slow down a little!
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    3997 days ago
  • COLEMANSR
    emoticon I like this.
    3997 days ago
  • CEEBEE200
    Fingers crossed for some positive progress to come out of those test results for you, Lita. Good for you for being your own advocate -- you deserve to get help when you ask for it, and to feel well!
    3998 days ago
  • AUNTC321
    Thanks for the blog. I have been working on the Letting Go portion of my life. Happy Valentine's day to you too. Chris
    3998 days ago
  • DINA:-)
    i loved this blog, lita!

    have a happy valentine's day!

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    3998 days ago
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