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Tuesday, May 05, 2009

so it seems the wedding is not happening. my friend J and his partner S seem to have gotten so upset about each other's different ideas about how their ideal wedding should be that they postponed the whole thing. i'm afraid part of the problem is that my friend J wanted me to be there for his big day. it's not that his partner doesn't like me (we've met and like each other a lot), but S is of the rather seclusive kind and would have preferred a very private wedding. having to plan on such a tight schedule (5 weeks to plan a wedding is NOT a whole lot of time, i guess) didn't make it any better, so they decided to call the whole thing off for now.
i'm perfectly fine with that, i just hope this doesn't cause and more disagreements between them. they are one awesome couple, usually.
and i definitely got my motivation up to shed the pounds anyway - i'm so looking forward to fit into a smaller size before i go clothes shopping.
i started bootcamp off on the wrong foot - threw out my back on saturday and could do neither the kickboxing video on sunday nor the lower body exercise yesterday. i tried a short walk yesterday but didn't make it far past the first traffic light. i'm seeing a doc today, i think one shot should have me okay tomorrow!
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    Oh Bine,I'm so sorry to hear about both ur your friend & ur foot.
    As u know when it comes to marriage, the lovers have some panic...want everything to be done in no time and perfect at the smae time...they have a different point of u and everyone of them thinks his opinion is the best.That's how the Life time starts emoticon
    Soon everything will be ok and at ur end
    4151 days ago
    I'm so sorry that your friend has postponed his wedding. Hopefully he and his partner will use the extra time to work out all the differences and will enjoy and ideal wedding ceremony at a later date.

    I'm also sorry that you hurt your back! You were so kind to visit my SparkPage to inquire about my doctor's visit about my feet. Good for you for seeing a doctor about your back. How was the appointment? I wish you a very speedy recovery, my friend.
    4153 days ago
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    Oh my gosh. Sorry to hear about your back. That can put a real damper on your life when your back goes out.

    I'm also sorry to hear you won't be going to see your friends' wedding. I remember you saying how excited and nervous you were about going. At least you got some motivation from it!

    Weddings can be so stressful. My second one we just went to Vegas and got married in a little chapel on the strip. SO much easier. Hot, too! :-)
    4153 days ago
    I hope they work things out.. Marriage is about the joining of two people in love who want to share all their happiness together....... not..... all their arguments together lol.. So I wish them the best of luck :) I also think because of these marriage arguments that so many people elope or stay common-law these days, which is totally cool :D and cheaper! hehehehe
    4156 days ago
    Hope everything gets reworked amicably! That gives more time for you to prepare and plan and work toward your goals...please rest the back as much as you need to!
    4157 days ago
    Sorry to hear about your back. I can so relate to the back, hard to do much when everything you do your back is saying no.

    As for your friends, by postponing it, they will have a better idea of what they really want (maybe just eloping if she is so private?).
    4157 days ago
    Major bummer. Get well soon, Bine.
    4157 days ago
    Ugh, weddings can be so stressful, in the best of situations. 5 weeks is very rushed. Hopefully they'll regroup and take a little more time to plan something to suit them both.

    Sorry about your back! It's good you're going to see the doctor about it.
    4157 days ago
    I'm sorry to hear about your friends' wedding. That's too bad. I hope they get their problems worked out quickly, and decide to reschedule.

    Please, please, please, be careful with your back injury! I'm glad you're getting to the doctor today. But please don't try to do too much, until you're ready. You'll get caught up with the Bootcamp as soon as you're feeling 100%.

    I can't wait to hear about your clothes shopping trip!
    4157 days ago
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