~*~ When you came into the world..... ~*~

Sunday, May 09, 2010

Happy Mother's Day for those who are blessed to be one. All my "kids" have four legs so they haven't a clue they are suppose to pamper me. Ha!

DH made me some eggs and a little left over ham we got from the pantry. It was nice because normally I have some sort of toast. Rye or wheat when we have it. My husband is really turning into a good cook. Mind you when he first started cooking for us he burnt a lot of food. I would eat it and not complain (didn't want to hurt his feelings) Last night he made a casserole out of some canned chicken we had. Had fresh green beans in it. Very good.

Now I realize not everyone has a good mother. There are some that are estranged. My DH doesn't have a relationship with his. We did try to mend bridges at one point but her wounds cut too deep on my husband. My husband was a hyper active child and his mom couldn't control him so he was in foster homes and boy's schools. When they left him leave school to go home he was 15 and his Mom had moved and didn't tell him. His parents had split and his dad could only be found in the nearest bar. Of course that is a whole other story.

This post I found rang true at least for me on some of them. Sometimes we take things for granted.

--- Author Unknown

When you came into the world, she held you in her arms. You thanked her by wailing like a banshee.

When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you. You thanked her by crying all night long.

When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk. You thanked her by running away when she called.

When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love. You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.

When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons. You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.

When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays. You thanked her by plopping into the nearest pile of mud.

When you were 6 years old, she walked you to school. You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING!"

When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball. You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor's window.

When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream. You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.

When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons. You thanked her by never even bothering to practice.

When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastics to one birthday party after another. You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies. You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.

When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows. You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

Those Teenage Years

When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming. You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp. You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug. You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car. You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

When you were 17, she was expecting an important call. You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation. You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.

Growing Old and Gray

When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags. You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.

When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone. You thanked her by saying, "It's none of your business."

When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future. You thanked her by saying, "I don't want to be like you."

When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation. You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment. You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.

When you were 24, she met your fiancé and asked about your plans for the future. You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther, please!"

When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told you how deeply she loved you. You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby. You thanked her by telling her, "Things are different now." When you were 40, she called to remind you of an relative's birthday. You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now."

When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her. You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.

And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did came crashing down like thunder. "Rock me baby, rock me all night long." The hand who rocks the cradle ... may rock the world".

Let us take a moment of the time just to pay tribute and show appreciation to the person called MOM though some may not say it openly to their mother. There's no substitute for her. Cherish every single moment. Though at times she may not be the best of friends, may not agree to our thoughts, she is still your mother!!!

Your mother will be there for you; to listen to your woes, your braggings, your frustrations, etc. Ask yourself "Have you put aside enough time for her, to listen to her "blues" of working in the kitchen, her tiredness???"

Be tactful, loving and still show her due respect, though you may have a different view from hers. Once gone, only fond memories of the past and also regrets will be left.


Here are two poems I am dedicating to my Mom.

I Love you Mom!
~Author Unknown

Mom's smiles can brighten any moment,
Mom's hugs put joy in all our days,
Mom's love will stay with us forever
and touch our lives in precious ways...

The values you've taught,
the care you've given,
and the wonderful love you've shown,
have enriched my life
in more ways than I can count.

I Love you Mom!

I lost my Mom in 2001 and here is one of the last "good" pictures of us together.

Your Mother Is Always With You
~Author Unknown

She's the whisper of the leaves as you walk down the street.
She's the smell of bleach in your freshly laundered socks.
She's the cool hand on your brow when you're not well.

Your mother lives inside your laughter.
She's crystallized in every tear drop.
She's the place you came from, your first home.
She's the map you follow with every step that you take.
She's your first love and your first heart break.

Nothing on earth can separate you. Not time, not space, not even death...
will ever separate you from your mother...
You carry her inside you heart!

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    Beautiful blog about most mothers ,mine was not one of these to be remember with fondness. Have a good Sunday and you are a mother to us in spirit and your four legged babies. emoticon emoticon emoticon
    3907 days ago
    Thank You for the beautiful blog!! Very good picture of you and your Mother!!
    Thank you for the poems!! Beautiful!! My Mom has passed away: and I miss her!! Good for your dh cooking you breakfast!! You and Flurry have a Happy Mothers day!! emoticon emoticon emoticon
    3907 days ago
  • 0309COOKIE
    What a lovely Mother's Day blog! And I love the picture of you with your mother. You look so pretty!

    Maybe I'm imagining it, but Punky is being extra affectionate today, lol. He must know it's Mother's Day. Hope Flurry is giving you lots of love today.
    3907 days ago
  • TRISH106
    Thank you for the wonderful Mother's Day poems.
    I am sorry that you no longer have your Mom beside you. You do have her in your mind and heart.
    I am very fortunate to have my Mom. I am with her everyday. Most of our days are full of stories of past relatives. My Mom loves doing genelogy. So we are always finding new peple in our family or friends families.
    Yes, there are times we don't see eye to eye. We all have our differences. We give each other the space to be who we are and not who we want each other to be.

    My Mom lost her Mother when she was 3 yo. She died from child birth. So my mother did not have a mother's love. I am so greatful that she was and still is a kind and wonderful Mother to me and my Brothers.
    Happy Mother's Day from your Furries.
    3907 days ago
    This is a most power packed blog full of love. WOW. I had one of the worst relationships that my mom and daughter could ever have. But, I loved my mom so hard and so much but just could not get along with her. Her last few years on this earth she went out of her way to be mean to me and call and leave filfthy messages on my voice mail. But, no matter what I do and still love her, she is and always will be my mom. I really believe that there was something wrong with her in the head or heart or maybe both. But, just because someone is mean doesnt mean that they cannot be loved. What I miss the most is the forever lost chances that maybe somehow we could have gotten along and shared mother daughter times together. She was a manipulator and a liar and two faced. But I still tried my best to get along with her and to this day I love her, she is my mom. She passed on over in March 2001. I really believe that she could not help herself and that something must have happened to her in her growing up years to make her like that. She never told me about any other family members. She said they were all dead. She said her mom and dad came over on the boat from Poland. She divorced my dead when I was 3 so that when she died that was my whole family. I had 7 children of my own and they have asked about an extended family and I tell them what she told me is that they are all dead. Yes, make the most of the time that you have with your mom. I grieved so hard for her and our lost relationship when she died. This is the first year I can think of her and what we did not have with out crying from a broken heart. The Lord has healed my broken heart. Have a great mothers day with your little furry babies, they are your babies. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon
    3907 days ago
  • MSJAP1
    That was wonderful. The poems brought tears to my eyes. You are so right about cherishing what you have. I am lucky I still have my mother and I sorry you can't celebrate today with yours but from what you say you have some wonderful memories. emoticon
    3908 days ago
    Happy Mothers Day Willow. May you have a very enjoyable day.

    My fur baby pampered me by curling up on my chest and purring in my ear for about 10 minutes, then jumping down and demanding food in his own inimitable way!.
    3908 days ago
    Thank you for a marvelous blog. I hope you have a Happy Mother's Day just because you love. Hope
    3908 days ago
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