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If I Have to Fold One More Piece of Laundry …by Wendy Pope from

Tuesday, August 18, 2015

"Do everything
without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and
pure, ‘children of God without fault.’" Philippians 2:14-15a (NIV)

Dear Mom,

I refuse to accept the fact that I have to do my responsibilities by myself. Love, Blaire

My 6-year-old daughter wrote this letter to me in protest of her chores.

Her bold stance cracked me up, and the articulate manner in which she stated her case made me proud.

I went to her room to explain,
that although I appreciated her initiative, she still needed to complete
her chores … and with a good attitude.

Throughout Blaire’s young life,
we taught her that her attitude was just as important as her
responsibilities. Like most children, she still complained and argued.

Sometimes it would have been easier for me
to do her chores rather than train her to adjust her attitude. But I
knew that wasn’t the best approach. So I prayed and asked the Lord how I
could teach my children not to complain and argue about their
responsibilities. God gave me this answer: Lead by example.

One day, as the kids were
watching a movie in the living room, I dragged in another basket of
laundry and plopped it on the couch.

As I folded, I started to murmur
under my breath, "If I have to fold one more piece of laundry …" before I
stopped myself. Looking back, I realized I often complained while
completing my responsibilities.

It was time I acknowledged to myself that I’d been setting the wrong example.

Philippians 2:14-15a says, "Do everything without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, ‘children of God without fault.’"

When we complete our responsibilities without complaining and with a happy heart, our children will know how to do the same.

Children imitate what they see.
At that time in my life the Lord was refining and pruning my attitude,
and one area that needed care was how I approached my chores. My heart
harbored negativity toward caring for my household tasks. This directly
impacted my children’s behavior and dispositions. I determined to allow
God to change my heart so I’d be a better example for my kids.

I decided to:

Renew my heart each morning. (Psalm 90:14)
I quickly realized how different my attitude was when I started each day with prayer.
Repent of the sin in my heart daily. (Psalm 51:10)

I had to confess my wrong attitudes every day. Otherwise, my heart became heavy when I carried them from day to day.
Rend my heart. (Joel 2:12-13)

What I put in my heart definitely came out. There were changes I had to
make about what I put in my heart and mind. This meant adjusting what I
heard and saw to keep a positive attitude.
Rest my heart when necessary. (Psalm 127:2)

Rest needed to be more of a priority. It was hard with children and the
amount of work I had to do, but I had to set a bedtime and stick to it
even if the laundry wasn’t put away.
Whatever duties are yours to finish today, set your heart to do them
without complaining. You’ll bless the Lord and inspire those around you.

Lord, thank You for
encouraging me today with Your Word. I pray Your spirit will prompt me
to respond to my responsibilities in a way that is pleasing to You. In
Jesus’ Name, Amen.


Colossians 3:23, "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men." (ESV)


Trusting God for a Better Tomorrow: A Psalms Bible Study by Wendy Pope is available in e-book and soft cover.

Visit Wendy’s blog for more encouragement about cultivating a happy heart.


Ask the people around you to point out any time you complain. Sometimes we don’t notice it in ourselves, but others do.

Look for the blessing in your
responsibility. For example, if it’s folding laundry, thank the Lord for
clean clothes. If it’s washing dishes, praise Him for running water.
Gratitude kicks grumpiness out of the heart.
© 2015 by Wendy Pope. All rights reserved.

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    Thanks for sharing. I need to take stock of how I do my chores and make sure I do them with gratitude as well. emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1743 days ago
    emoticon Cari Jane, for the reminder that our attitude needs to be one of gratitude, every moment, every day! emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1743 days ago
    I think we can all use this one from time to time.
    1743 days ago
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    Thanks for the kick in the pants. I needed that. Been having issues with my kiddo. God bless.
    1743 days ago
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