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To Make a Connection, Make a Commitment - By Rick Warren - August 18, 2015

Tuesday, August 18, 2015

“A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” (Proverbs 18:24 ESV)
Good relationships don’t happen by accident. They take cultivation, work, and a lot of time. That requires commitment!
I cannot count the number of times that my wife Kay and I have felt
like walking out of our marriage, particularly in the early years. There
were so many times we thought, “This is not worth it. We’re so
different. This marriage could never work.”
But we didn’t walk out. Why? Because we’d made a commitment. We took a
vow — “Till death do us part” — not just to each other but also to God.
So we said, “We’re going to keep this commitment even if it kills us.”
And it nearly did! There have been times in our marriage that the only
thing that kept us together was that commitment — not love or interest
but simply the commitment we made to God. I am so glad that we did not
give up. Today, my wife is my best friend, and I cannot imagine my life
without her.
The Bible says in Proverbs 18:24, “A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (ESV).
Did you know that your socializing can keep you from having deep
relationships? You can be so busy networking, contacting, socializing,
and making acquaintances that you never give the time and energy and
effort it takes to cultivate the deep, satisfying intimacy of a good
friend or a good wife or a good husband.
It’s not wrong to have a lot of acquaintances, but they can keep you
so busy that you don’t develop any vital, close relationships. You don’t
need a lot of friends to make it in this world, but you do need a few
good ones. You need to focus on quality, not quantity. Your
acquaintances — your hundreds of Facebook “friends” and Instagram
followers — aren’t necessarily going to be there when you need them. But
the friends you are truly connected and committed to will.
Every important, close connection begins with a commitment. If you
want to get beyond shallow, superficial relationships, you’ve got to be
willing to stick with it.
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