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Romantic Guy ?

Saturday, June 11, 2016

Help? Your advice is requested. A. I know a great single guy since about 2000. B. We volunteered and worked together from About Jan 2007 till Jan 2011. C. He seems to like me. D. He swam beside me at the gym. E. He worked out at the next gym bike. F. He came to my church and sat by me a few times. G. We went to many volunteer meetings and functions together. H. Around April 3, 2016, I told him in person I liked him more than a friend. I. He turned around and acted like he did not hear me. Never got an answer of how he felt but his body language speaks volumes. J. Since we still are attending the same meetings (mandatory and part of my household utilities) he hides or avoids me. K. He blocked me off his Facebook page today. L. Ran into his relatives (live in small more rural suburb) and others that still think we are a great couple and in a relationship. M. When ask "how are you and he doing?". I answer honestly "I do not know". N. When I see him he is still Checking me out and has a physical male reaction. O. Yet, he is posting all kinds of new sexy women on his social media page. P. What should I do? So far deep breathing, drank lots of water plus a good massage. Tomorrow, he will see me all dolled up, hair done nails makeup and new outfit. Q. Giving him space but feeling like it his loss if he does leave. Yet hoping for a happy ending but happily single regardless of what he does! R. What are you idea of what this mean guys and gals? S. Simply what would you do or how should I handle the next time I see him? Appreciate my Sparks Friends but living and loving is confusing plus challenging!
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  • CAMBI2
    Find a movie similar to your situation,get a few ideas from it ...ask him of he's seen it,then depending on his answer tell him your might be a bit much but kinda breaks the ice?
    1524 days ago
  • FUNNYFACE101002
    Ask him what's going on. Tell him his honesty is important.
    1524 days ago
    1524 days ago
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