JESISAMESS
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Rethinking this "support" thing.

Wednesday, July 05, 2017

This is my 3rd attempt at spark people. I keep leaving because I run into people who make me feel bad about myself. Isn't that completely against the purpose of this site? Aren't we all here to get healthy and support each other along the way? Sorry, not sorry, but to all of the Judgy McJudgersons, your words just Prove that you aren't happy with yourself and you need someone you deem weaker to take it out on. I AM NOT THE WEAK!!!
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  • JESISAMESS
    Thank you for all of your support! I know there will always be 1 or 2 negative people. I just dont understand how in this situation, where we are all struggling to love ourselves, people feel the need to belittle others. I won't be bothered :)
    1204 days ago
  • JOHNWBROCKSR777
    Just wanted to stop by and send a word of encouragement to you. Spark People has become my support group for you see I am a recovering grease aholic. Yes, it is true if you can "fry it" I can "eat it".

    Spark People research has found that people who get involved in social teams tend to be more successful in their efforts.
    Moderation is a very important key to being successful in our journey. One day at a time....Look for small victories...Look for non-scale successes.

    If you are a believer in Christ and believe that a heathy life style involves Mind, Body, and Soul than, I want to personally invite you to join the Driven by Faith Team. There you will find others likeminded people that will support you in your journey and you will be able to help others as well.

    We are here to help. YOU can DO this! Oh by the way...have you ever tried Fried cardboard, don't have much favor but a nice crunch....lol....Live life today.

    John

    1204 days ago
  • RHOOK20047
    I am sorry you feel that way. I have never experienced that at all. I have found everyone to be supportive and motivational. If I can help you out feel free to sparkmail me. I don't really worry about what other think. I know that I have to think well of myself, or it doesn't matter.
    1205 days ago
  • MARTHA324
    OMG,I am so sorry to hear that people here make you feel bad. Ignore those jerks and focus on YOU. And let the Spark people know so they can do something about them.


    There are so many here that will cheer you on. Hope you can focus on that .
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    1205 days ago
  • OVERDUECHANGE
    Glad you're back. It's hard to brush off comments from people who are awful, but, I do try to focus on the people who are nice.

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    1206 days ago
  • FITWITHIN
    Don't let folks get you down. Stay positive and keep moving forward. Some people fell like they have the right to judge, but can't stand it when it given back to them. You have the right to be here like anyone else. Keep up the great work on your journey.
    1206 days ago
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