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tauntful past memories

Sunday, July 08, 2018

Okay, I am going to be rather blunt fully honest here, things happen in life that are out of your control; like you get called names for being unique, you get judged for being different, you try to get people to understand you but they misunderstand completely then say things like ''*they gasp* how dare you say... blah-blah this... blah-blah that...'' or ''oh (name) grow up", or they might have said ''(name)'re bloody pathetic. Girls can be strong too/ girls can be as good as boys at sports."

Well, I had this be told to me in the past when I had my heart condition and when I werent diagnosed with autism and anxiety disorder yet... The whole getting called wimpy and pathetic got to me a lot, which is why one of my goals as said about on my profiles bio is to tone up and buildup a little. It made me mad how those past negativities had grated on me for so many years. I've just about had enough of it.

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  • GARDENCHRIS
    I understand, now that my son has been diagnosed Bipolar, the family has some healing to do. You Go Girl!
    869 days ago
  • MARINEMAMA
    WTG.
    870 days ago
  • ANHELIC
    Good girl. I know you will feel more independent when you get the bike. I am happy for you. I prayed for you that you would make the right decision that will help you. God bless. I used to be called names when I was growing up, now if that happened, I would just walk away. I don't want negative things steal my joy. emoticon emoticon emoticon
    870 days ago
  • NEPTUNE1939
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    870 days ago
  • JADE0659
    Dealing with similar issues. Hang in there. Be yourself. And don't listen to gossip or condemnation. And most of all, don't condemn yourself. Do the next right thing. Cheers!
    870 days ago
  • BECCALOU09
    Will be getting a three wheeler bike once I saved up a bit more. Hoping to have saved up enough by the time it hits either October or January next year!

    Also, am thinking of going to a leisure centre that I go past by bus when it's on the way to the bus station in town, the centre looks rather quaint; not many people, very spacious, exercise bikes, treadmills and has two assistants who would kindly support people. So, Im thinking of it for now.
    870 days ago
  • DRLMAZ
    Hang in there. You got this.
    870 days ago
  • no profile photo GRAMPIAN
    You show them! emoticon
    870 days ago
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