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And now this to deal with:

Monday, October 14, 2019

I have been on a steady downward drop from 369 to this morning I am at 299.6 on the white scale...yea me lots of hard work and no support from my wife, oh from now on she will be known as the Dark Cloud. well, she had Back surgery in the last week of July and spent the next two months at her mom's recuperating...yea right. well, two weeks ago she told me that she wanted a divorce, after 30 years I could understand us drifting apart from each other. but how nice was i...the only good thing is the house is paid off and I am gonna sell it to one of those cash dealers...just need to decide where I am gonna land now. for 30 years I haven't made a decision that I didn't get her input on....and now I have to learn how to do that and how to be a single person again, well I will have my Scruffie with me. Jack Russell/Chicacha mix in dog years we are about the same age so this should be fun..have not drove in 15 years and now I want to buy an RV and live in it full time....is that crazy? I just hope this doesn't deter my weight loss plan from continuing....Have a great day!
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  • KATHYSCOLLIES
    Om my, Randy - I am so sorry to hear your news about you and Linda breaking up. It's such a hard to thing to do any time, but especially after so many years. I know that you will pull through this - you are a strong person, plus you've got your sweet Scruffie by your side!

    I would definitely get several estimates on the house price before deciding on how to sell it. You'll want to get the best possible $$ that you can... I think driving around in an RV sounds fascinating, and fun but also a little scary to me. Kudos to you for being brave enough to do it!!

    Congratulations on the pounds gone! WOW you've really really done well - way better than me lately...

    Do you still have my e mail address? If so, send me a private message so we can keep in better contact. If not let me know and I'll send it to you again.

    Love you bunches my friend!
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    304 days ago
  • ICECUB
    CONGRATS ON YOUR WEIGHT LOSS. THIS PROVES you CAN DO THIS. I AM SORRY ABOUT THE DIVORCE, YOU AND SCRUFFIE WILL MAKE IT. NO MATTER WHAT KEEP SPARKING AND TAKE CARE OF YOU.
    304 days ago
  • CROQUETCOURT
    No matter what happens, keep on Sparking. You have to take care of yourself now for yourself.
    Love the idea of travelling around the country in an RV. Keep us posted on how you are doing.
    304 days ago
  • no profile photo CD14456645
    emoticon tough stuff there... 1 day at a time... just like you lost the weight, 1 bite at a time... keep going... you're headed into a very big adventure! (divorces are hellacious/heartbreaking -- so keep taking care of you... because you matter... it's for you... by you... you can do this... hang in!)

    ps - can you check with a few real estate agents to see if they can get you better than the cash guys price?
    305 days ago

    Comment edited on: 10/14/2019 1:59:56 PM
  • LESLIEJEAN43
    emoticon on the wonderful weight loss!
    emoticon about the divorce! It's too bad, but it does happen that people drift apart.
    Your idea of living in an RV sounds emoticon to me!

    Keep going with whatever you have been doing to lose the weight.

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    305 days ago
  • HMBROWN1
    Well great work on the weight loss! So sorry to hear about your troubles. I hope that it doesn't derail your weight loss too much.
    305 days ago
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