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Thursday, November 07, 2019

Tomorrow will mark 8 weeks in Florida for me and my brother. Seven on Saturday with my brother in the hospital. Its been a stress two months. My brother is supposed to be transferred from the long term acute care hospital floor to the top floor inpatient rehabilitation facility tonight or tomorrow. They told us he'd be moving about 3 but he was still there when I left. The doctor mentioned it might be tomorrow so I don't know. There's so much up in the air. When he will get his final discharge and can leave the hospital? Where will we stay until someone can come drive us home? Who will be the ones to bring us back to his house? When can my son bring winter clothes to me? I mean I packed for two weeks in 90 degree weather in September and November is moving along. .how long will he need my assistance? When can I go home and take care of my doctors appointments? We're supposed to come back to Florida the last of December for 5 weeks? Will he be able to drive by then? So much is still up in the air. I would love to see my son and my children from different parents-my son's friends who call me Mom and there Precious kids who call me Grandma. When will I be able to sleep on a real bed again? Sleeping on the futon is not the most comfortable place for hurting bodies to lay. I'm so thankful that our brother lives here so i.have a place to stay. I have learned when I say I want to spend more time somewhere to be extremely specific about and qualify my statement to allow good health and no accidents or illnesses involved. I.hope everyone is doing okay. I miss my computer because I can go online through the website and do so much more. Take care. Spread love, peace and joy to everyone you see.
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    I hope your gets stronger so that you can sleep in your own bed soon!! Keep the faith, my friend emoticon
    31 days ago
    Ramona talk to the Administrator there and see if they can help.If not call the Local Police they can
    find you some help.So sorry,keeping you both in prayer. emoticon emoticon emoticon
    32 days ago
    Ramona, I wish things could get better for you and not be so much up in the air. Praying that something works out for you and everything falls into place. emoticon
    32 days ago
  • JOANN25
    I am so sorry that you are having so many problems. Time will take care of the situation though. Keep thinking positive.

    Hope your brother is well soon.
    32 days ago
    This is so sad, Ramona. Can you call some non-profits in the area and get help in different ways. That's what they are set up for. Salvation Army provides clothing, bus tickets, and sometimes shelter. If you have the time, call around a see if you can get some help. Local churches? Wish I could do something to help.
    32 days ago
    So very sorry for all that you are going through. Healing prayers for your brother and comfort for you.
    32 days ago
  • FROSTY99
    A medical crisis while traveling is never easy to deal with. I know how hard it can be to figure out your next move. I lived with the threat of something possibly happening to my DH for over 10 years. We didn't let it stop us from living our lives-one cannot live in fear of what might happen, it also might not happen. Yes, he spent some time in unfamiliar hospitals but never as long as you have been dealing with but I do understand the stress.

    Sending you hugs and prayers;
    32 days ago
    Bless your heart. I wish I lived close and could help you out with the clothing and maybe in the transportation area.

    I will be praying for you and your loved one in the hospital.

    Hold on and don't give up.
    32 days ago
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