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Happy Sunday Sparkers

Sunday, January 12, 2020

I hope that all of you are enjoying your Sunday.


Not a whole lot to report today. I plan to catch up on posting on my SparkTeams and explore other content that I may have overlooked. Picking up around the room also.


I have to figure out a way to let the people in my building know that I do not want to hear all the personal drama happening in the lobby. And yet, they cannot figure out why I stay in my room. Because I do not want to be a party to that. It is not my circus, not my monkeys. But they like making me their dump bucket. They literally seek me out to say how they had a fight with another neighbor and play the victim. Yeah, to much negative energy. I am determined to stop catering to this behavior in 2020.


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  • MSLZZY
    They want to vent but I would just keep a radio turned on so you
    do not have to hear the conversations and let it go. Refuse to be
    drawn into the drama.
    39 days ago
  • LINDA!
    I agree. Who wants to hear other people's drama! So sorry you are dealing with this.
    40 days ago
  • RETIREESMITH
    Best of luck in avoiding all that.
    40 days ago
  • ALEXSGIRL1
    i always try to walk away but they sometimes catch me , Just laugh and be glad it not you Hugs
    40 days ago
  • MILPAM3
    It's called self justification. Each feels the other is in the wrong. Ask them why they don't go to the other person and try and work it out. If you keep saying that, they'll eventually leave you alone.
    40 days ago
  • MTRANCHWOMAN
    Sometimes it is hard to just say stop and get them to listen. Obviously you are not involved in all the drama so they come to you to talk about it. Good luck and emoticon
    40 days ago
  • 1CRAZYDOG
    Oh goodness. I would just excuse myself and walk the other direction. **SIGH**

    Good luck

    Blessings today.
    40 days ago
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