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I made a decision to take charge of my program again

Wednesday, January 22, 2020

good morning- I worry about my family and issues they have. I must let go. My DH is still having issues with adjusting to his retirement. My DS now is solving his marriage problems with trying to appease my DIL with anything she wants. DIL needs therapy. I must let go. Those two have proven over and over that they do not make good decisions. It is their life and their problems. Even my DH had another bad judgement episode yesterday. I was flabbergasted.
All these problems of others interfere with my program. I need to "let go". All this stress is not good for me. It is a bad habit of mine. Awareness is the first step in the process of change. Have a good day!!
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    ((((HUGS)))) It's not easy. My DH is having a little difficulty w/the retirement 'thing', too. So, just know you're not alone. HUGS and definitely -- take charge of YOU -- that's all you can do.

    73 days ago
    We tend to carry the burdens of those around it back to them means less stress for you all.

    74 days ago
    It always seems like when there's a problem 1 family member has to dump it on me. I have asked many times to please stop it stresses me, so i get the take care of you factor. Stay strong
    74 days ago
    You are right let it go
    74 days ago
  • 1BLAZER282005
    I had a toxic friend always chaos and drama, and I let her go in December. My stress has improved greatly. Choose your path that brings you happiness. Enjoy your day.
    74 days ago
    Right. Let go
    74 days ago
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