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What a day
Friday, May 17, 2019      6 comments

Guy #1 no contest. Sentence hearing June 27 E.v.e advocate will help me write it, prosecutors office wants me to do it. Express All my emotions, frustration, disappointment and victim blaming. I have a strong platform to stand on and support b... Read more
My next decision
Thursday, May 16, 2019      5 comments

Do I want to make a witness statement at the sentencing hearings? Right now only for #2. It’s not worth it for me with #3 to spend that much time composing it, addressing him, or having to be around him again, I trust the judge for the justice a... Read more
Today’s verdict
Wednesday, May 15, 2019      6 comments

#2 from today is moving up to circuit court and has been released until his trial date June 21 same day as #3. Our #3 has a bond hearing Friday because yesterday he was hanging out by our house. Besides sitting at the boundaries of the complex a... Read more
3 in a week
Tuesday, May 14, 2019      8 comments

Tomorrow #2 which her and I both need to testify. Friday #1, who was stupid enough to go to the door totally naked while living at his daughters house. He is exposing his true character of what he is really like and just added #3 for violations ... Read more
I am so weary and tired of this whole situation
Thursday, May 09, 2019      3 comments

Last night as we are getting ready to leave for swim practice the prosecutor called and frantically asked where is my daughter? I said here with us. She said “as soon as he bonded out he went straight to McDonald’s. His tether is being monitored... Read more
Emotions are hard to describe
Wednesday, May 08, 2019      3 comments

Just got the notice that guy #3 has bonded out of jail and will be on the 3:00 bus back to the complex where my daughter lives. After court yesterday we automatically moved her back in for awhile suspecting this would happen. He has 48 hours to ... Read more
Today’s outcome
Tuesday, May 07, 2019      6 comments

Circuit court begins June 21 for him. He has 2 counts of 3 which is prison time, and 2 counts of 4 which is jail time and his plea deal was no counts of 3 , 1 year of jail and no sex offenders list. I am not going to allow him to do to another... Read more
Another day
Monday, May 06, 2019      4 comments

Amazing how actions of 1 can affect so many. Today I withdrew my social security retirement not realizing the negative affect it would have on my daughters benefits. In an hour the burial of my sister in laws ashes as I can’t go since we need t... Read more
I am sinning and questioning God
Friday, May 03, 2019      5 comments

I am holding on He does not give us more than we can handle but I am on the edge. Yesterday I was diagnosed with “caregiver burnout” another new terminology. As usual the system has failed again and her home health care was refused by DHS becaus... Read more
Yesterday’s results
Tuesday, April 30, 2019      2 comments

As I write through my tears. 3 for 3 with no plea bargain and taking us to circuit court too. This experience has been worse than the years I was being beat by my x-husband. The summer my daughter and I were hiding in fear from motels, to shel... Read more
Getting prepared for another day in court.
Monday, April 29, 2019      5 comments

If only! - If I could turn back time! I have So many regrets. I made One bad mistake, I messed up ok. I’m sorry for all of this. - Yet in court no confession, no apology, no plea bargain . All these words he said to me and my daughter are us... Read more
Another reminder of how time changes
Saturday, April 27, 2019      6 comments

Our family has been involved with our community festival for 60 years. My dad was President 35 and Vice President for 25, plus working at the church, lions club, woman’s club, library and historical society. Besides the kiddies parade this was t... Read more
Beautiful moments
Thursday, April 25, 2019      6 comments

I Just walked to my daughters complex and the community room was half full. So great to see various card games going on. someone sitting there knitting. A man reading his bible and a group on the end coloring. There were snacks, laughter and ... Read more
Being an advocate
Wednesday, April 24, 2019      4 comments

I Never saw myself as a strong, bold, stand up against or for anything type of person. I was the one by themselves observing and watching but not participating. I was always passive, apologizing and the peace maker. I would be alone in a crowd ... Read more
I love SparkPeople
Tuesday, April 23, 2019      6 comments

So encouraging, uplifting and supportive. Even reading blogs I can digest from their trials and errors for what works and what doesn’t. Reading how a person enjoys exercise and looks forward to the classes, and disappointments when they can’t ... Read more

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