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woe is me work woes
Thursday, June 13, 2019      3 comments

I havent sparked much lately....and it shows! I have been stress eating alot and not getting my exercise. Do you ever meet someone and they present themselves as one person, then a few months after getting to know them, they really let the c... Read more
save the drama for my momma she loves it.
Thursday, May 02, 2019      2 comments

Thanks to everyone who took the time to read and comment on my blog yesterday. It is a very tough situation, you are damned if you do/or dont. You cant win with a Narcissist and you cant win with a determined enabler. I work with the elder... Read more
lessons never ever learned
Wednesday, May 01, 2019      8 comments

Do we EVER learn??? Well, I havent!!! The last few days I took it upon myself to TRY to help my elderly mother, who is being financially extorted by her grandson. Well, apparently she likes it that way. I was told that she didnt need my help... Read more
back track, back to the track that is
Thursday, April 18, 2019      1 comments

I havent been on SP in about a month. I went back to work, FINALLY!! And so my time is limited. When I come home I usually have just enough time to get supper cooked and do a little house work before settling in for a tv show before an early bed... Read more
onward and upward, right after i step back in time a minute.
Tuesday, March 05, 2019      4 comments

What's the greatest chapter in your book? Are there pages where it hurts to look? Blake Shelton Losing weight is hard enough, but when you are trying to lose the same weight, yet again, its even harder. Especially since each pound you l... Read more
if losing weight was as easy as wash/rinse/spin
Thursday, February 28, 2019      5 comments

Yesterday was a good day. The weather was great compared to what we have dealt with over the last few weeks. I walked a full 2 miles at the track and 4 for the whole day, I could do better but it was great just to be outside. So, today I go... Read more
these things
Tuesday, February 26, 2019      2 comments

Weekend pics. The weather is finally changing. From ... Read more
sunshi....oh nevermind.
Friday, February 22, 2019      3 comments

Spoke too soon. Got a text from the narcissist about 3pm yesterday. Staying strong. I guess 8 is the number of days they can go without feeling better than someone else. I am really studying and speaking with others who have gone thru this... Read more
from the brain to the feet, i am getting better
Thursday, February 21, 2019      4 comments

It has been 8 days since the narcissist tried to contact me. I have removed them from my social media and have no plans to answer any texts from them. ... Read more
i have to conquer i have to get past this
Sunday, February 17, 2019      3 comments

One reason I hate weighing in, is because if I have lost some weight and I feel good about it, I almost always sabotage my success. I have not been doing right the last 4 or 5 days!! Eating pizza and burgers and junk food!! I am so flippin... Read more
part 2 blog about the needy narcissist.
Thursday, February 14, 2019      3 comments

Part 2 of my blog about the narcissist I am trying to break free from. I blogged about this on Wednesday. I just need to get these thoughts out of my head and see them more clearly. It is a long blog. I understand if you dont read, but if y... Read more
the sickness that cant be cured by a pill!!! (narcissism) 1
Wednesday, February 13, 2019      5 comments

This is a somewhat long blog, and I know sometimes when we see the length of a blog, we move on, as maybe we are too busy to sit and read so long. I encourage anyone who is dealing with a toxic person in their life to read and I sure do apprecia... Read more
i lost it, again!!
Tuesday, February 12, 2019      7 comments

Weigh in day went ok. I am down 3 lbs since my last weigh in, which I think was Jan 30th. So, I could have done alot better. But I guess its better to see a loss than a gain. Now, that being said.....I am RE-LOSING the weight I had already los... Read more
last blog of the week.
Friday, February 08, 2019      2 comments

dreading weigh in day. i always do. but i am going to work really hard and hope my efforts pay off. it is friday, grocery shopping and errand running for me today. bad weather, so i am going to do my walking inside today. my highest ste... Read more
hump day
Wednesday, February 06, 2019      1 comments

It rained all day today, so I cleaned house, watched videos on Youtube, sparked, bathed my dog, did laundry and cooked chicken and green beans. I have had a good day. Now I am getting supper dishes cleaned up and getting ready to watch my 60... Read more

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