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2/11/19 10:43 A

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Oh Becky, your post made me cry. We do care about you here. I want you to know that. I was happy to see you posting in our little group.

It is such as sad ordeal you've had to go through. Please, don't feel like it is wrong to be grieving the loss of your son, even if it has been 2 years, 10 years, or 30 years. No parent should ever have to bury thier child. It is not the nautral order of things.

I will pray that you will find peace and come to a place where you can accept what has happened and not feel like you have to punish yourself for this loss. It wasn't your fault and I know that deep down you know that.

Keep those happy memories of your son when he was with you and don't let the sad memories take over. You do not deserve to have to wallow in saddness. The pain of the loss was enough.

Your mother is so blessed to have you to take care of her and your chrandchildren as well, but you need to remember that you have to also take care of yourself so you can be there for them.

Bless you Becky. I look forward to having you back again. emoticon

I'm not there yet, but I'm closer than I was yersterday.


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2/10/19 9:50 P

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I will keep you in prayer!

Brit

II Tim 1:7 - For God did not give us a spirit of timidity but one of power, love, and self-discipline. (ISV)

Prov 31:17 She dresses herself with strength and makes her arms strong. (ESV)


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2/10/19 9:33 P

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Hello EVERYONE
I need your prayers. I lost my son he OD it has been a while now 12-29-17 but I am still depressed. I pray GOD HAS BLESSED ME IN SO MANY WAYS but I have to live in the same house it happen in and it dont bother my husband but it bothers me, I love and miss him so much but every where I look I think of him, every day there is not one day goes by that I think of him and I have responsibilities I babysit my two grand children 3 to 5 days a week , most only 3 but it was 4 or 5 days this week. my mom is a blessing to me she is 89, I make her food and give her pills everyday, if she didn't move in with us I would be in the bed most of the time, now on the days I dont watch my grand kids I do get up and my moms meals give her pills and most of the time I go n]=back to bed, Im so sad and cant seem to find my happiness any more, I love OUR FATHER GOD, OUR LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST AND THE HOLY SPIRIT AND I FEEL BLESSED THHAT I AM ALIVE FOR MY GRAND CHILDREN AND MY MOM. I love my daughter and my husband and I am blessed my oldest grand son moved in with us about one month after our son Stevie died. Ii have came a long way but I am not ready to take time for myself, im so sad I only take a shower maybe twice a week. it NEED PRAYERS. I cant buy another home yet maybe in two years. but then a part of me would feel im leaving my son if I move. so I want to move and I dont, I want to take showers most days but I dont I want to be happy but happiness I don't feel I don't want to go to a grievers group in person, I did online, I joined a few but it broke my heart every time I saw the pictures of their loved ones who passed, or I would read how they missed them so much and I would cry. IM REALY NOT CRAZY but im grieving my son still and I always will SO PLEASE PRAY FOR ME PLEASE. I WILL BE BACK IN MAYBE A MONTH I LOVE SPRKPEOPLE I NEED THIS SITE BUT ONE THE KIDS GO HOME 6:45 OR 7 IM TIRED I NEED ENERGY, I NEED TO LOVE MYSELF PLEASE PRAY FOR HELPING ME WITH THE LOSS OF MY SON, LIVING IN THE SAME HOUSE, PRAY I FIND ENOUGH ENERGY TO EAT HEALTHY, WALK FOR EXERCISE DRINK MY WATER AND BE A BETTER WIFE, MOTHER, GRAND MOTHER AND A DAUGHTER TO MY BEAUTIFUL AND SWEET AND KIND MOM AND CHRISTIAN, I CAN FIND MYSELF AGAIN WITH PRAYERS SO PLEASE PRAY FOR ME, PLEASE CARE ABOUT ME

trust GOD, love yourself and think positive!
Becky


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10/30/18 10:33 A

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Hi! I'm sorry I didn't see this earlier, but my work has had me on a weird schedule, and it's hard to keep track of things.

Welcome to the team. I am Brit, and I am a new leader here, working on getting the team active again. I want to assure you that you are not alone, and I have some of the same challenges that you have.

We can do this. It takes small steps, and consistency, but we can do this. My biggest challenge is the consistency part, as I work full time and homeschool as well. Sometimes (okay, more than I would like to admit!) things get pushed off simply because I am too tired, or don't have time. Learning to take care of myself is something I definitely need to work on.

God bless each of you, and we can do this. We have each other, and more importantly, we have God on our side.

Brit

II Tim 1:7 - For God did not give us a spirit of timidity but one of power, love, and self-discipline. (ISV)

Prov 31:17 She dresses herself with strength and makes her arms strong. (ESV)


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10/25/18 10:13 A

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I recently joined here because I can't do it alone either. I figured I rely on the Lord for everything else in my life, why not this?

I need help too and a lot of the support I was getting a few months ago has abandoned me, closed thier pages.

We may be the blind leadning the blind, but maybe we can help each other? At least keep each other accountable. Check in here and say "I'm here and I'm still trying. I did this exercise and ate this healthy food."

Currently I am trying to follow a plan that is supposed to help my metabolism to get back to a fat burning zone. The easy part is I only have to count carbs and not worry about calories and fat grams. The hard part is for the first 2 months carbs are limited to no more than 5 net carbs in a 5 hour period. I'm on day 3. I have a husband and grown daughter who live with me but no one encourages me or cheers me on at home.

I also look to the community feed most days to find inspiration and motivation. I check this team page daily to see if there is any action that will let me jump in and be an active member.

Curious to see what you think of my offer / plan.

I'm not there yet, but I'm closer than I was yersterday.


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10/24/18 2:32 P

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iA LOOKING FOR HELP i WANT TO LOSE WEIGHT AND GET HEALTHY I AM A MOM OF 3 AND AM 58 BUT I AM ON MY OWN TO TRY TO DO THIS i AM IN A WHEELCHAIR AND CAN'T GET OUT LEGS STILL MOVE BUT THEY NEED HELP. I AM A CHRISTIAN BUT NOBODY TO TALK TO REALLY IF I COULD LOSE WEIGHT I THINK I CAN STAND AND MOVE PLEASE CAN SOME ONE HELP IAM SO LONELY

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