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5/25/10 12:45 A

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Hi Monika,
I am so glad that you talked with your friend and that he is very understanding. Sounds like a 'keeper' to me. Take care, and keep us updated on how you are doing.
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5/24/10 9:03 P

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That's great! emoticon
Talking out was the right thing to do, and I'm glad it worked out!
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5/24/10 5:10 P

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Thank you all for you suggestions, I have already talked to him, we are ok...He knows about my bipolar and is usually very understanding...big warm angel hugs to all.
Monika

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Around here we don't look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward, opening new doors and doing new things, because we're curious
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5/24/10 11:11 A

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Hi, Monika,

You and your friend have a solid relationship. I think the tension after the argument will pass. And I, too, am glad that you are part of the team and know that support is here for you.

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5/23/10 11:12 P

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Monika,good to hear from you. I know you have down days and i am so glad you have Spark DWD team as a place to share your honest feelings. I think Jodi made a couple very good suggestions. Keep in touch.

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MONIKA I know how it feels when the illness says things that you are sorry for later. Don't hate yourself -- apologize, and if you can't apologize right now, write a not of apology.
Explain that you were not yourself, and you are really sorry for what you said.
That is all you can do now, and when you do it you will feel at least somewhat better, so go for it!
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5/23/10 4:49 P

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Hi Monika,
I am sorry that you are feeling 'down' today. I haven't read your blog, so I do not know the details of which you speak. If you think that your meds are making you feel bad, have you discussed this with your doctor? Maybe that new dose of lamictal needs further adjustment. Talk with your doctor, and let him/her know how you are feeling. Take care, and keep in touch.
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God bless you butterflyangel! I have those kinds of days sometimes too. Can you just kinda take some time for yourself to rest and relax and just kinda chill for awhile till Monday? Maybe that would help.
I hope so.
Big hugs,
Collie

I waited patiently for the Lord; and he inclined unto me, and heard my cry.
He brought me up also out of an horrible pit, out of the miry clay, and set my feet upon a rock, and established my goings.
And He hath put a new song in my mouth, even praise unto our God; many shall see it, and fear (revere) and shall trust in the Lord.
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5/23/10 4:34 P

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I am not doing so good right now, I really want to say something good today but I cant see anything good, I think my meds are making me worse, since I started the new dose of my lamictal I have been horrible to my friend and to myself...anyway I posted a blog today and it goes into more detail...I just hate myself right now...sigh...

I hope all are well, I am sending lots of warm angel hugs to all.
Monika

Even the smallest people can change the course of the future.
-Galadriel, Lord of the Rings fellowship of the ring.

Around here we don't look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward, opening new doors and doing new things, because we're curious
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-Walt Disney, Meet the Robinsons


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