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1/18/20 5:20 P

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I had been in a relationship with the same person for 7 years During that time I stopped worrying about my health, of course. We are still friends, but after we split up I didn't really have a desire to date for almost 3 years, that is until a few months ago, and only due to circumstance.

To make a really long story not as long (still long) - the same woman had been cutting my hair for the better part of a decade at this point and I had always had a thing for her but never made it obvious, as either she or I had always been seeing someone at various times for as long as I'd known her. A couple years back she had a change of career, however - at some point years ago we had exchanged numbers, but hadn't kept in contact. Still with me?

Then one day I noticed I have a notification that she added me on SnapChat (something I never use, nor do I use any social media stuff. Those are NOT my things. Typically I am not a selfie-type person) but I think to myself Cool! Maybe I should finally just ask her out, right?

So I chat her up for a bit and eventually do the thing and she says yes and I'm on cloud 9.... well, I won't get into big details but we've dated a couple months however it feels like itll end up being one of those things where I wish it'd work because we both have great chemistry but there's just one of those "key" issues that I don't think I can be accepting of, for the sake of my own sanity really.

I think with the newfound responsibilities to MYSELF I would be better off being single again.

On the other hand, when I do want to put myself out there again.... I really dread it. Ive never been a bar person and where I live there isn't much else people tend to do socially. I also don't care much for those dating apps - it seems like everyone out there is just window shopping and any luck I've had on them seems to be quickly whisked away

So that's my story

Edited by: DAJODU at: 1/18/2020 (17:24)
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I never know what to do in the presentable category... Do I wear make-up or not? If a man sees me at first with make-up, he is eventually going to see me without. What if he does not like what he sees then?

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I am seeing a man I met at a church supper last EASTER SUNDAY, first person I have gone out with in 4.5 years. He is 5 years older then me. I do not go out with different age men, but in the last 5 years men from 21-90 have asked me to be there girlfriend.

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One of my roommates. She is so uncool.

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I cannot make it more than a month with a female its like it never fails something goes wrong

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I cannot even remember my last date. Men do not even glance at me.

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