Why Am I Heavier Than I Look?

You’re killing it on the treadmill, mixing it up with some strength training, eating more of the right foods and less of the wrong ones, and staying honest by tracking your meals and workouts. In some ways, all your hard work is paying off. You feel stronger and slimmer. Muscles that have been MIA for ages are finally peeking out, creating new definition in your arms, legs and abs. Maybe your energy is soaring, allowing you to accomplish more than ever before (and have more fun doing it!). Your clothes are fitting a little better, and overall, you like what you see in the mirror. So why is the number on the scale higher than you’d expect?
In short, you're heavier than you look.
And you're not alone. Plenty of SparkPeople members have been baffled by what seems like a disconnect between the number on the scale and the image in the mirror. Member KHUTCH44 posted her dilemma:
I'm 5'8" and weigh 200 pounds. My closest friends—and even my boyfriend—don’t believe that (people have asked to pick me up because they didn't believe me!). My own [doctor] was surprised by my weight at my first physical with her. Everyone has always guessed that I am 20 to 40 pounds lighter than I am. It's a compliment to be told that I don't look like I weigh 200 pounds, but it's also frustrating. If I don't look it, why the heck do I weigh so much?
Ever since middle school, K-NANA has noticed that she weighs 20 to 30 pounds more than she appears, but it's never been a real issue for her. "I just figured it was something unique about me," she says. "As I'm trying to set goals for being healthy, it's clear that we're not all cookie-cutter, and I've accepted the fact that I might never fit into a healthy BMI (but will look like I do)."


Is Strength Training Making You Heavier?

If you've recently started dipping your toe (or your triceps) into strength training, that could have something to do with the discrepancy between the scale and the mirror. While it's a myth that muscle weighs more than fat—after all, a pound is a pound—it is denser, which means it takes up less space in the body. This may explain why you look slimmer but the scale hasn't budged.
Water weight could also be a factor, according to strength and conditioning coach Brandon Mentore. After physical activity—strength training in particular—water retention is activated to compensate for what has been lost through exertion and sweating. "In combination with the muscle’s uptake of water during training, this can cause you to weigh a couple pounds more post exercise," Mentore explains. "The more intense or strenuous the exercise, the more pronounced the effect can be."
Fitness trainer Alex Haschen has seen a lot of his clients struggle with this at the outset of an exercise program, as they tend to want to quantify all their hard work by seeing a certain number on the scale. "Generally speaking, most people looking to ‘get in shape’ are referring to losing weight," Haschen says. "When the scale shows a smaller number, they consider that an accomplishment, and it is, but the scale is far from the only way to measure healthy successes."
SparkPeople member ARCHIMEDESII experienced this when she started strength training. "[As a result of strength training,] I carry a lot of lean muscle," she says. "The difference is in volume—muscle is dense and takes up less space on the body than fat [...] A person could lose one to two clothing sizes with strength training and still maintain their current weight [...] So, I may be heavy, but I'm not fat."


How to Measure Progress off the Scale

According to Haschen, the best way to gauge progress in the gym is to monitor your body fat percentage (BFP). "Lowering your BFP not only helps you get the physique you desire, but it also drastically improves your overall health," he says. There are many different ways to measure your body fat percentage, some more accurate than others, but as long as you use the same method consistently you can get an idea of your progress.
Tyler Spraul, a trainer with Exercise.com, recommends taking periodic progress photos as a visual record of the changes to your body. "Even if the scale isn't budging, you will be able to see some changes happening that you probably would not notice if you didn't have a record," he says. "There's so much going on when you start to strength train, including building up of muscle tissue, strengthening and reinforcing bones and connective tissue—all kinds of positive growth that is paving the way to a stronger version of you."

If progress photos aren’t your cup of team, there are plenty of other ways to measure progress off the scale:
  • Try on the same pair of pants each week to see if they’re fitting you differently
  • Use measuring tape to determine inches lost
  • Monitor your cholesterol, blood sugar, triglycerides and/or thyroid levels
  • Pay attention to how you feel—your energy level, confidence and overall wellness
  • Focus on new things you can do that you couldn’t before, like pushups, pull-ups or running a mile
If you find yourself frustrated by a number that doesn’t seem to represent what you see in the mirror, resist the urge to move on to the next diet, workout or cleanse. Next time you start to wonder, "Why am I heavier than I look?", remember that your health, strength and self-worth are about much more than what’s on the scale display.
Have you ever felt like you’re heavier than you look? Did it bother you, and how did you get past it?
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Member Comments

Good article. Thanks for sharing. Report
Great article Report
I just go by how my clothes fit Report
I am a believer in the size of your bones making a difference. When I was in high school I weighed 150 pounds. Of course I thought I was over weight because most of the girls weighed 120 to 130. I thought I must be fat even though I did not look bad. When I really did gain weight, one thing about it, I gained it all over equally. That also can makes me look like I weigh less. When I was at my max 226 no one believed it. To this day no one believes what I weigh. I am 70 years old and weigh 180. I look more like 160, and that is my goal. All I can say is looks are deceiving. I really liked this article it hit home. Report
Thank you! Report
I've actually been struggling with this. All my clothes are smaller, I look smaller but the scale isn't budging. I figure it'll eventually catch up, LOL.
I was also frustrated when I started lifting weights and I started to gain weight, but my clothes still fit correctly and in some cases fit a little lose. Report
I've always been heavier than I looked - and much of the time wear smaller sizes than my height and weight would lead to. Never understood it, but always grateful for it. Report
thanks for sharing Report
I’ve definitely decided to let inches and clothing sizes be my guide rather than the number on the scale. My doctor says she cannot believe my scale weight because I definitely look thinner, I’ll take it. I have a goal number in mind simply because I want to finish my journey. Then I will let my physical presence be the maintenance guide. Report
Oh so TRUE!! I’m 5’5” and currently weigh 200 and I’ll tell people because no one believes me anyway! My good friend always said I was a compact package. It’s not a problem at all 🙂 Report
I relate to this article so much! I see before/after pictures of people at my weight and am always shocked by how my body shape is so different than theirs. Due to this I've always looked for strength gains instead of scale drops. I find I lose inches first then have a bigger drop in my weight. Frustrating but things do change. Report
It is too bad that insurance companies go by BMI. Any bodybuilder with muscles is probably has a high BMI but a low percentage of body fat. They should go by the percent of body fat, it is easier to go by a chart than to measure body fat. Report
I can relate to this article. I weight in the standard obesity range, but I work out and look strong. I look lighter than the scale says and it's frustrating. Report


About The Author

Melissa Rudy
Melissa Rudy
A lifelong Cincinnatian, Melissa earned a Bachelor of Arts in English Literature from University of Cincinnati before breaking into online writing in 2000. As a Digital Journalist for SparkPeople, she enjoys helping others meet their wellness goals by writing about all aspects of healthy living. An avid runner and group fitness addict, Melissa lives in Loveland with her guitarist husband and three feisty daughters.