DEADBEAT DAD & GRANDMA!! Relationship in Uproar!!!
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Okay today has been an extremely emotional day for me. This week has been emotional for me but today has just topped the charts. I have eaten about 8 donuts for 3 donuts it's 290 calories, so in donuts alone I have eaten around 800 calories. I didn't even care, just have been so upset.
Most of you know that I am a single mom with a great guy but with a deadbeat father. Who is always criticizing me & putting me down. He is soooo worried about who I am dating verses being concerned about his 2 sons. So he had been sending me hateful text messages & voicemails, so I decided 2 weeks ago to put a block against his number. He hasn't paid child support in well over a year. However, he is always managing to go to a Lakers or Cavaliers game or on a cruise. I learned that he was doing tooooo much emotional damage to my sons.
So since I haven't allowed him to call me, he calls his mother & tells her all types of crazy things. Now let me be clear, that his mother has not called or seen my son's in over 2 years!! So imagine how surprised I was yesterday when I saw a letter in the mail from her! She says in the letter "How she is sorry that she hasn't had time to call in 2 years but she has been busy with working 2 jobs & that it's not good for me to poison the boys mind & that their dad isn't a deadbeat & that I should let him talk to them. I should let the dad be in his kids life" ARE YOU FREAKIN SERIOUS!!!!
This put in me in such an emotional uproar!!!! So my current guy Eric doesn't like the kid's father b/c the father is very out right disrespectful to me & to him. I mean he lives in another state but once drove from Atlanta to Orlando & didn't even tell me & was sitting outside my house at 5 a.m.!!! Imagine how surprised Eric was when he went to start the car up to see a man sitting in my driveway. This is not the first time he has popped up without calling. He thinks he still controls my life & can show up whenever he wants & this causes friction with me & Eric b/c Eric feels like he is being walked over by my crazy kid's father. So now me & Eric are not speaking to each other & he is up set with this situation & now I am upset b/c I can't control this situation!
So Eric has been dealing with it & is tired of it & is even considering ending the relationship b/c he is tired of dealing with the crazy kids father & now his crazy mom. I just needed to get this off my chest, just for me. I am just having a horrible day. I would hate to lose Eric b/c of my crazy baby daddy showing no respect for me, his kids or Eric.