FRIENDS~ There 2 Lift Me Up at My Weakest Moments!!
Friday, October 23, 2009
Happy Friday Spectacular Diva's!!!!
There is a Proverb "The time to make friends is before you need them." I must honestly say that I never knew how many people lives I impacted on a daily basis until I wanted to walk away from Spark on yesterday. I mean I really emotionally broke down & I came on to read all of the outpouring letters of support & emails that were sent to me. It was at that moment that I knew I had real friends, people who genuinely cared. People who said they read my blogs everyday for support, they didn't leave comments but said they just wanted to be uplifted by what I had to say.
I was blown away b/c I guess I took it for granted but I really appreciated everyone who didn't give up on Cassandra, those who wouldn't allow me to give up on myself. That is true friends.
I know this is suppose to be a site about weight loss but it is sooooo much more than that. This site is forging friendships & Spark is a part of my life. I might can't call my friends but if I post on Spark I know that at least 1 person will reach out to me.
Yes, yesterday I did eat horribly but today I am on track. Me & Eric were able to get past the deadbeat situation & appreciate all of the comments that I received. Me & Eric are going to ignore the deadbeat dad & not let him tear us apart b/c we realized that is exactly what he wants. The truth is that he hates to see me with another man, a GOOD Man!!! A man who has stepped in & being a good role model to my 2 boys. So I will no longer let the deadbeat have control over my emotions!
I realized that I let him ruin my whole day & made me lose my self control & a moment of self worth. He is not worth it or is anyone else worth me self-destructing thru food!! So today I am back on the program & really have to step it up today. I am going to workout today & eat healthy!!
**DIVA TIP OF DAY**
“Every Adversity & Every Failure Creates the Opportunity for Success!! It is from Failure that We Learn Our True Strength!”
To each of you Fabulous Diva's who Love me & Will Not Me Fail & Most of all give up on myself!! We are a Spark Family!!!