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just have to share this one...........

Monday, July 19, 2010

people have always asked me, why are you so happy all the time? well, of course i am not happy all the time, sometimes, i feel anxious, confused, scared and angry just like everyone else. But MOST of the time I Choose to be HAPPY! I am not a victim of my circumstances! there will always be difficult people to deal with, troubles to deal with, work to be done, challenges to overcome, etc. etc. but, life is so short why waste any extra energy on being unhappy? I have a girlfriend who thinks if she could just meet the right man she will be happy. HAH! There is no one on the face of this earth that can make you happy all the time, NO ONE! or if I could just have a new car, new job, new house, new wardrobe, then then I will be happy! HAH! Life just isn't like that. You can choose to be happy even if life is handing you lemons........................
.what you gonna do?! I love you my sparkfriends, it is just that easy as to look at yourself in the mirror(sometimes it is above the waist LOL ) and say, Today is gonna be a great day, I will be happy and joyous today no matter what happens.......................
............So, smile and the world smiles back, say it believe it and then ask yourself a VERY IMPORTANT Question,"What makes me happy?" What is it that makes me feel the most happiest in my life, and then DO IT!"

Can I share something with you that i shared with my daughter right before she got married(to a guy she dated for 4 years) Always remember this.............true happiness does not come from another person or tangible thing............it is a decision that you make for yourself! Only you can make you happy! No one can ever fully make you happy! With that in mind, enjoy the company, attention and royal treatment but never put that kind of pressure on yourself or anyone else for that matter. True happiness comes from yourself!
Live Life and ENJOY IT!
We only have 1 life to LIVE!
kathy
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  • 007JERSEYGIRL
    I love your enthusiasm! What a great attitude! And it's so true - how better to celebrate that gift that is our lives than to be happy? Thanks for this blog!
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  • DABINEXIAN
    So absolutely true! Happiness is a choice. Each morning we need to made the decision to be happy. It's not a difficult choice when you remember that there is always someone who has it so much worse than you do. So wake up each morning and greet the day with a smile.

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    4034 days ago
  • no profile photo CD3690893
    emoticon blog! That makes perfect sense, some good wisdom to live by. Thank You!
    4034 days ago
  • no profile photo CHOCMOM
    emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon Thank you for the wonderful blogs!! I really needed to be reminded of this today. emoticon emoticon emoticon
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  • -FEMALE-
    FANTASTIC BLOG!! I have people ask me all the time why am I so happy all the time. Some people like it, some people hate me so much over it. I can never find the right words to explain why, but this blog was exactly it! I don't like wasting my life on being unhappy and holding grudges. If I don't like doing something, why pout over it, I'm going to have to do either way, might as well look at the best side of it.

    Thanks for sharing this today, loved it!
    4034 days ago
  • no profile photo CD7818113
    Thanks for such a wonderful post. I often tell my children that if you smile on the outside, even when you don't feel like it, eventually it will spred to the inside and you will start to feel happy.

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    4034 days ago
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