Turning out to be one of THOSE women..

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

So I got remarried (Oct 12) to an awesome guy who stole my heart. I'm realizing that I'm being one of those wives I hated..the one who gives my husband all my attention, who doesn't go out and socialize, makes sure to go home when he gets home, just like I don't have my own life, I want to spend every minute with him when he's home. I'm catching myself checking his phone and everything(his ex had been wanting him back too). I don't know if its my insecurity about my past relationships or what but it really bothers me and it has affected my friendships and my kids...I really need help...

P.S. I was not like this when I was married the first time.
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    2651 days ago
    First, remember this. You can't hold what happened to you against this guy. He deserves a clean slate.

    He married you. He loves you.

    I don't socialize as much either (being married) but I think I would more if I didn't have a toddler at home. If my kid were a teen, that would be different!

    I love my husband so very much. He's a great father, husband, and we are happy. There was a period of time where I felt like that. I just had to pause and remind myself that he loves me. I had a hard time, but the thing is, no matter what, you can't do anything to keep someone faithful. I'm not saying he will cheat. He probably won't. I'm just saying that other than being happy and trusting, and making your home as happy as possible. The rest is him, and you have to just trust. It might not be easy, but it will be okay.
    2743 days ago
    I guess I'm afraid he may do what the other guys did. He tells me all the time he loves me and since he's been cheated on he would never think of it. I just need to keep telling myself that not all guys are the same.
    2743 days ago
    Is it being enamored of him, or is it being afraid that he may betray you?
    I have a great book called The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace, and another called Secrets by Kerry Clarensau which are invaluable for gaining a good and godly perspective of marriage. I pray peace and blessings for you, in your relationship, and in your journey to a healthy lifestyle ( INCLUDING the relational aspect!)
    2743 days ago
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