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How God Uses Grief to Help Us Grow By Rick Warren — Oct 16, 2015

Friday, October 16, 2015

How God Uses Grief to Help Us Grow
By Rick Warren — Oct 16, 2015

“We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him.” (Romans 8:28 NIV)
Grief, loss, and pain are an inevitable part of life. But did you know that God uses our grief to help us grow? He does it in three ways.
First, God uses pain to get our attention. C.S. Lewis wrote, “God whispers to us in our pleasure, but he shouts to us in our pain.” Pain is God’s megaphone. We rarely change when we see the light. We change when we feel the heat.
Proverbs 20:30 says, “Sometimes it takes a painful experience to make us change our ways” (TEV).
Second, he brings good out of bad. One of the most famous verses in the Bible is Romans 8:28: “We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him” (NIV).
When you experience a loss, it’s an opportunity to grow in character. You can’t control the pain you go through, but you can decide whether it’s going to make you bitter or better. You decide whether it’s going to be a stepping stone or a stumbling block. You have to remember that even in your pain, God is working for your good.
Third, God prepares us for eternity. The Bible says in 2 Corinthians 4:17-18, “These troubles are getting us ready for an eternal glory that will make all our troubles seem like nothing. Things that are seen don’t last forever, but things that are not seen are eternal. That’s why we keep our minds on the things that cannot be seen” (CEV).
You’ve probably heard me say before that you’re not taking your car to Heaven. You’re not taking your china or your clothes to Heaven; you’re not taking your career to Heaven. But you are taking your character. You are taking you.
God’s more interested in your character development than in your comfort. Why? Because you can get comfortable in Heaven, but this is the get-ready stage. This is the learning stage. This is the warm-up act. Your troubles here on Earth are getting you ready for an eternal glory. That’s a comfort.
When you’re in pain, you need to ask, “What is God doing?” Is he trying to get your attention? Is he trying to bring good out of bad? Is he preparing your character for Heaven?

Talk It Over
What does it mean that God is working for your good? Does it mean that God only lets good things happen to believers?
Why is it sometimes easier to focus on the here-and-now rather than on Heaven?
How can you prepare yourself now so that you are ready to hear from God when you are in a time of pain?
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    1a. God works for the good of those who love him. It sounds like it is, but it isn't. 2.
    Because it's happening or already happening. Although I'm ready for heaven. 3. God is always working for my good even when I'm in pain. I hope everyone had a
    Super & Blessed Saturday!
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    2077 days ago
    This is a wonderful blog. God never promised us a rose garden, besides roses also have thorns. God loves us and teaches us through the things that happen in our life, just as it is written so beautifully above. Thank You so much. emoticon May God bless you richly.
    2077 days ago

    Comment edited on: 10/16/2015 7:26:22 PM
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