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THE DAY AT A FRIEND'S PLACE

Monday, November 06, 2017

Hello again.

As some of you might know, I live in a large apartment complex (150 suites). Living in such close quarters often brings added challenges that home owners do not have to deal with. One of those challenges involves the addition of unwanted 'critters' ie) bed bugs. They spread from suite to suite through walls, baseboards etc. They can make ones' life a living nightmare.

The day I was hit by the car my place was being sprayed. I never made it home that day. Since that time I have been living on the couch since that seems to be the easiest for leg immobilization and rest. I am grateful for that couch. It is reasonably comfortable and affords me easy assess to the bathroom. I am grateful I do not have to go into the bedroom which seems to be the area the critters like best.

I am grateful for the crutches the hospital sent me home with. These crutches provide me with greater mobility. I appreciate the fact that Home Equipment companies exist in order to meet the needs of people who require such assistance. Although dealing with our No Fault insurance company has been very very difficult, not to mention frustrating; I am grateful they will be covering the costs of renting these items. I simply could not afford it.

Laying on that busy street for more than an hour in rush hour traffic was a very frightening experience for me. I suspect there was some element of shock. I knew my leg was badly broken but it appeared as if my head was intact. It could have been soooooo much worse. One woman got off the bus and shouted, I saw the whole thing. Keep her down. She hit her head. I kept insisting that my head was okay. I had no idea that my eye was badly bruised. I was not wearing a helmet. There have been times in my life when I no longer wanted to live. This was not one of those times. I was grateful to be alive; to have only bruises and a couple broken bones.

I'm grateful for all the kind people who rushed to my assistance. There was a very capable nurse at the scene (another bystander) who examined me from the top of my head and down my spine. I was calm, very very calm. These capable individuals helped me feel even calmer.

I have so much more to feel grateful for but now it is time to rest.

Thank you for reading.
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  • MAIZIEPAIGE
    You are an amazing lady to be able to find so much gratitude at a time like this. God blessed you with some caring angels to help you at the time of the accident and after. I'm praying for a full recovery so you can get back to the things you enjoy most.
    1206 days ago
  • SHARON10002
    You were most definitely being helped by angels! Great blog on finding the many blessings that were right there to help you!
    1318 days ago
  • ERIN_POSCH
    What a wonder blog. I really enjoyed reading about your finding blessings in the midst of the storms. Praying you heal quickly, and your pest problems end soon. ((((HUGS))))
    1322 days ago
  • -POOKIE-
    It's obviously taken you some time to process and share how things happened, I am so glad people where there to help you. It's people like that who make this world a better place, thats for sure.

    Take care of yourself xx
    1322 days ago
  • NEW-CAZ
    Great presence of mind from that woman to keep you still May. it could have been so much worse. Hadn't realised your were laying there so long!!!
    You have the right attitude to your experience, I hope the pain lessens and you're soon doing PT and recovering back to your old self.
    Meanwhile, take it easy.
    Hope you can get out to see your friend more as you recover emoticon
    1323 days ago
  • VERNAJ3
    I didn't know you were on the pavement for an hour. You must have been chilled to the bone. I'm so glad there were folks there to take care of and be with you until help arrived. You are much stronger than you give yourself credit for my Sparkling Friend. Not too many people would grateful for anything after an accident such as you had, they would be too busy sitting on the pity pot! God bless you.
    1323 days ago
  • JOYINKY
    Great blog Mayie! To be able to be grateful in the face of such adversity is such a blessing--to us all! It is a choice. I had no idea you were on the street for an hour! How wonderful those concerned and competent people were there to help you and keep you immobile until you could be checked out!
    Did you get out for awhile to a friends today? That would be nice. I know you need to rest and heal. I also know how difficult that is for you! Heal well and you'll be back stronger than ever! Hugs.
    1323 days ago
  • SYLBA61
    I'm really glad you weren't hurt any worse than you were. About the bug problem: we had a bout with bedbugs. Diatomaceous earth worked best for us. Pest control store recommended it. Sprinkle it under furniture& between mattress & box springs.
    1323 days ago
  • EISSA7
    What an incredibly awful life event! Thank goodness you were surrounded by competent, caring individuals
    who comforted you. Now, it is your j-o-b to rest and heal.....it is a testament to your spirit that you are able to experience gratitude while dealing with your injuries ..... emoticon
    1323 days ago
  • RATPACK65
    Thank goodness your injury was not as bad as it could have been. You have a great attitude. Best of luck to you!
    1323 days ago
  • INFLATED
    I am very glad that you weren't killed when you were hit by that SUV. You have such a great attitude of gratitude that you inspire me to be more thankful.

    My Mom lived in housing for the elderly and roaches and bedbugs were common in that building. Mom put out glue mouse traps in front of her neighbor's door and the next day they would be covered with roaches. I didn't know about the bedbugs until after she died. They have tried to get rid of them, but have not been successful.

    I hope that the spraying will keep that at bay while you try to rest and recuperate.
    1323 days ago
  • MOUSE
    God bless and heal you soon.
    1323 days ago
  • 1CRAZYDOG
    Oh goodness. You have such a good attitude about this whole thing! I just hope you're pain levels are decreased.

    HUGS
    1323 days ago
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