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Wednesday, June 27, 2018

I dropped a few challenges I’ve been doing on here. They weren’t helping me just stressing me. Maybe in the fall!

Here are a few tips for this month;

Drop ‘em! That’s right. Drop what doesn’t fit you. If you’re exercise routine is not fun as much as boring, or you’re not seeing any changes, drop it! Sometimes you need to drop allegiances too. You may not be able to completely get away from someone—day, a neighbor, co-worker, family emoticon . But if someone or something is sucking the life out of you, you gotta drop them! As they say in Al Anon, detach, with love. But as Ice read elsewhere in my literature, if you can’t detach with love, just detach! Sometimes the “love” has to come later. This doesn’t mean you mistreat or disrespect the person(s) that aren’t there for you or add to your life (they likely are not getting what they need from you either, or at least not cultivating what you have to give emoticon). It just means you gotta be true to you. So they can be true to themselves too. That might be in misery (them not you—now lol). It may mean a break or just acquaintance-type relations with the energy sucker is your life.
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    Good for you! Hope it all works out for the best!

    1020 days ago
    Sometimes a drop is necessary. You're right. Sometimes, though, I do the distance thing for a bit until the person gets their head outta their keester. But with some people the wait is endless and it ends up a kind of a lengthy drop process. Good luck with your drops! May you be left with vibrant live-able circumstances!
    1021 days ago
    Hey Miss Lori! Lol I just have a few negative influences in my life and I just can’t deal with them right now. So Im “dropping” them. emoticon My son and I missed our summer mini-vacay at a conference we usually go to. But I told him we’d go to Panama City or somewhere else fun later in the summer. Hope you’re having a lovely summer! emoticon
    1023 days ago
    I totally agree with you! This is why vacations are important and acquaintances stay acquaintances! Only we know ourselves best!
    1024 days ago
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