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Day 54 (rated M)

Monday, February 25, 2019

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πŸ˜–πŸ˜†πŸ˜‹πŸ˜·πŸ˜ŽπŸ˜΄πŸ˜΅πŸ˜²πŸ˜Ÿ A very warm hello to all - if any - who've decided to go ahead and read this. I'm just venting here so you may still want to vamanos anyway. I'll stop and give you time to collect your things and comfortably wander out. *peppy muzak plays, smooth jazzy beats fill the air as a Chuck Mangione type trumpet solo begins to take over* Oh Spark blog! I'm genuinely concerned about how to breech a sensitive topic with my husband. It concerns my sex drive. See right now we are intimate 2 to 3 times a week on average and I would like more. I don't want to offend him or make him feel like he doesn't do a good enough job, I would just enjoy more physical intimacy. Even if it was just performing oral sex on him. I just want more. And yes, I know it's selfish and demanding. It's just I experience relief when he does. Taking care of things alone doesn't actually achieve the same thing for me. I want to build up the courage to ask for things like this. I'd also like to be tactful and eloquent enough to ask without offending. I honestly don't know how he'd react, I'm just assuming the worst. If anyone is reading this, any suggestions are welcome. I don't really know how to bring up this topic naturally. Anyway, just blowing off steam rather than eating my feelings. Sarah
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  • GO_GAL_GROW
    emoticon I don’t think you are selfish at all. I think you just say, hey hon, I like having sex daily, I love the physical contact with you, and leave it at that. Men have to feel like it’s their idea, so let him come around to it. On the flip side, be prepared, he may be going through something where having more sex is not a priority at the moment, don’t take that out on you. Clearly see that it’s something he’s going through.
    799 days ago
  • NOCALOVE1
    Sarah, I do not think it is selfish at all. Share with him what you did here and see what he says... April
    802 days ago
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