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5/10/13 4:15 P

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lost 2lbs in a few day got one more before tuesday

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5/8/13 3:53 P

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well this week has been hard I am missing my son, I gained 3lbs back
I need to get control

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4/14/13 10:17 A

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where is everyone, come on and chat emoticon

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4/10/13 5:25 P

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I met a mom at the cemetery yesterday, she lost her son 3 yrs ago he was killed, she said its getting harder, I was so worried that this will get harder, 26 yrs I had the most loving wonderful son, I cry every day,

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2/28/13 3:44 A

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hi sorry I am not around, I am having a hard time, this month. Friday march 1 is one year that my son pass away. I have been in counseling, but its so hard, I wish I could just sleep until mar 2. on friday there is a candle light vigil for my son, at the place where he died,
I dont really want to go, but I need to be there for my daughter, she planned this.

send you Hugs
Darlene

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2/15/13 2:49 P

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((hugs)) to you. The firsts are the worst. And the seconds suck too. Did you acknowledge the day, or just let it pass?

For me, Valentines Day is now Congenital Heart Defect Awareness Day - every year I post info about CHDs on my facebook page & encourage my family and friends to support their local heart charity. It's a way to make the day special for my Kaity :)

Whatever you have to do to get through it, is the right think for you to do. Hang in there.

Sharon - Ontario


It's not that some people have willpower and some don't. It's that some people are ready to change and others are not.
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2/15/13 2:31 P

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Valentines Day was so hard its the first one without Joey here, and I really want him back but hese with his cousin who died when he was 5.

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2/7/13 2:27 P

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I'm so sorry for your loss dmorelli1031. I can relate to feeling like it could never get better, though my loss was a very different circumstance. I personally found the first year to be the hardest - and 8 and a half years later I still have days that are hard; it has gotten better, but it takes time, and how much time is different for everyone. Go easy on yourself. Anniversary's are very hard - have you made any plans for the anniversary of Sal's death?

Sharon - Ontario


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2/7/13 2:06 P

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Hi, people tell me it gets better, I can't see that I lost sal march 1 2012. He went to work his car was taken feb 29, for not paying his parking tickets. sal work in a few school he was a tumbling coach. his friend pick him up and took him to work came back and picked him up. they were hang out that night at 230 am the driver was speeding 100mph sal was the only one who die. since that day i stop living.
I am so glad we can chat.

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2/4/13 9:37 A

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I agree with everything Sharon said. My heart aches for you. This road you are on is a hard one but there is hope, hope that one day the ache is not as strong as it is today and that the happy memories flood over the sad day of his death. Big hugs to you and embrace your Joey moments.

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2/3/13 12:31 P

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I'm so sorry for your loss. You are so early in your grief journey, I think it is wonderful that you are working on focusing on your memories of Joey - it's a long and dark path, and I hope that your memories help to light your way.

Sharon - Ontario


It's not that some people have willpower and some don't. It's that some people are ready to change and others are not.
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2/3/13 9:51 A

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I lost Joey May 3,2012
What happened was accidental drowning, but he was a excellent, he had a grand mal seizure in the pool, but was clear of seizures since2000.

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2/2/13 4:53 P

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When did you lose Joey? I agree about the memories - focusing on the good memories can help through the harder times :)

Sharon - Ontario


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2/2/13 3:59 P

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I had a joey moment yeterday. Losing joey is hard, but I will ALWAYS have happy memories of him.

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Lets just chat,
How are you feelling today?

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